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I don't like oral sex!
I have not had sex yet but I did try oral on my boyfriend and I just don't like it! It hurts my jaw and neck and I feel uncomfortable doing it. He also smells funny which kind of makes me sick to my stomach. I have tried it 5 times now and I am not enjoying it more as I try it which he said I should. How can I enjoy it more?
Don't worry about it too much! I will tell you a secret, not many women do! It is more about a connection and pleasing your partner. You should get a sense of control and pleasure from pleasing someone else but this is not always the case if you aren't comfortable. As for the smell, that might just be urine. Guys aren't exactly the cleanest bunch. Just ask him to shower before trying the next time.
I never liked it but I do it because I know he enjoys it. I think that is what the main takeaway is from it. If you absolutely don't enjoy it at all, don't do it. Not all women do and if a guy is willing to not date you or leave you for something like that, he just isn't worth it.
Some people like it, some don't. Not all men love oral (going down on women) either. I would argue that there are more women than men who enjoy oral as a whole but you never know. If you find you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it. Don't let any guy tell you it is a duty or something or force you into it. You want to enjoy sex, not be put off by it!

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