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Do you feel weird with self-pleasure?
I feel like I can't be the only one. I was never one to masturbate or use a toy. All of my friends have expressed doing both and enjoying it and I kind of just nod and agree as if I do these things too but I don't. I have tried and I just don't care for it. I even tried using porn! Is this unheard of are are more women like this? I feel like I can't be the only one but at the same time, I never see women talking about this.
I don't feel weird, I just can't manage to do anything myself LOL!!

I never have been able to. I didn't have my first orgasm until I was in my 20's and my boyfriend of the time asked me to go on top. That is the only way I can reach full climax. I wouldn't worry about it. It is't for everyone!
No, but I can understand why some women do. I have a friend who never masturbates or uses toys. She told me something similar to what Chloe mentioned, she just can't find pleasure in it. I don't think it is something women like to discuss which is likely why you don't hear about it as often.
You are overthinking things too much. Just because you don't like this kind of stuff doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Plenty of women and even some men don't care for it. They would rather be with someone for this sort of thing and that is understandable.

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